Today makes the one week anniversary of my arrival in Cambodia! I have never experienced such extreme highs and lows in such a short amount of time ever before. The first few days were impossibly difficult; I was so lonely and homesick that all I wanted to do was come home, but then I got some sleep, ate some (delicious) food, met some people (both Cambodian and not) and all of a sudden, I was having the time of my life. Sometimes I am so happy and excited the feeling just literally bubbles up inside me and all I can do is laugh and smile.
Though I have only been here a week, I feel as though I have been here for much longer. Cambodia makes it easy to feel that way: the locals are ridiculously friendly, and they all want to practice their English and say hello. The children are the same. They want to play with you, to make you laugh and smile. They love to say “Hello, Teacher. Good morning. How are you today?” and take whatever you might be carrying for you to the desk. When you answer back, “I am wonderful this morning, thank you, how are you?” they smile their bright, open smiles and say, “Very well, thank you.” Not only are the people themselves welcoming, the city of Phnom Penh as a whole is really cool. There is a park running down the center of one of the bigger streets here, and in the late afternoons, When school lets out and everyone is off from work, the place fills with families and groups of friends playing badminton and a game like hacky-sack, walking or jogging, and just hanging out. At one end of the green, there is even free open-air aerobics (though, all the locals call it dancing).
The vibe of the park is one of great community and inclusivity, which is incredibly welcome in a country where not only can I not understand the language, I can’t read it, or even muddle through a conversation a little bit. When it comes to French or Spanish, the language has a similar sound to English and it uses the same alphabet. When it comes to Khmer, the language spoken here in Cambodia, the sounds, the alphabet, and even the way words and sentences are written, is completely different from anything I am used to. For example: there are no spaces between the words in a sentence, soit'slikewritingandreadinglikethis. The absolute language barrier makes everything else just that much more intense, and sometimes, everything is just so very overwhelming. But, at least it is not a tonal language like Chinese!
Tomorrow is my first day teaching solo, and I am so excited! I've been at the school for a few days now, but another volunteer has been teaching most of the classes. Hopefully there will be some funny student stories coming soon!
Abby, you are mind blowing! One day Honduras, the next, it seems, Cambodia! I guess you were home for a few days? I may have missed a blog or two..keep well, and sane...how long are you there for? The class rooms and outdoors look lovely. Is it hot there? Wow!
ReplyDeleteSorry, I meant Nicaragua...but you have definitely jumped a continent!
ReplyDeleteI love these posts, Abby! Takes me back to our class. The stories you guys can tell after just a couple of years... blows my mind!
ReplyDeleteHi Abby, it's great to hear about your travels. If you haven't already been, the Foreign Correspondents Club in Phnom Penh is worth a visit. It's a bit colonial, but a good place for drinks and a beautiful view of the Tonle Sap at sunset.
ReplyDeleteThis sounds like such an amazing experience. I am so excited for you! Crazy to think that a year or two ago we lived down the hall from one another and now you are half way around the world. I will be heading to Africa in January... hope my experience is half of what you are saying!!! Be safe, have fun!
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy you are there and soaking up SE Asia! It was so great to see
ReplyDeleteyou at Rob's on that special wacky night too! Greetings from England..
do we get around or what? Try if possible to visit N Vietnam's Ha Long
Bay... it's incredible!! Have a blast!
Hi Joan! It is very hot here, yes, but at the same time, I am getting used to it and am glad that it isn't cold like it is at home! I am in Cambodia until the beginning of March, so I won't be home for awhile. Sometimes it seems like a really long time before I come home, and then sometimes it feels like the time is going to fly by. THanks for reading - the support I'm getting is really really helpful. Being on the other side of the world is overwhelming sometimes without family and friends!
ReplyDeleteHi Beth,
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading! That comment coming from you means more than you know!
Hi Peter,
ReplyDeleteI will definietly check out the FCC - I've heard it is good, but a little expensive by Cambodian standards. IT is amazing how quickly I've gotten used to the prices here, and now when food costs more than 5 dollars I'm shocked! But all the same, I will definitely check it out at least once when I am here! Thanks for reading!
Kaitlyn,
ReplyDeleteIt is absolutely crazy that just a little while ago we were in school together. I am so excited for your trip to Africa, it sound slike such an exciting expereince! I want to hear all about it! Maybe when we are both in the US we could get together for coffee or something and swap crazy stories? Anyway, good luck in Africa, stay safe and happy and healthy, and I'll see you when you return! Thanks so much for reading - It is really good to hear from people back home!
Hey Abbs, If you come across the Grady Grossman School while in Cambodia let me know!!!
ReplyDeleteWill do, Chris! Is there a particular reason for this school?
ReplyDeleteHi Pip,
ReplyDeleteIt was really good to see you at RObs, hopefully I'll see you when I get home. I don't think I'll make it to Ha Long
Bay, but if I get the chance, I will jump on it!